Tuesday, May 13, 2008

High As A Kite

It's been my inclination lately, to get on this thing and just post a bunch of complaints about this or that, but instead decided to wait until I had something a little more worth while to write about. I suppose if I had to assign some sort of a topic to what I want to write about today, it would be one involving the words simplicity or simple pleasures. I've had tremendous unease inside of me as it seems that everything in my life is changing at an uncomfortable pace.

Sometimes, I think a lot of people feel like life is moving at an uncontrollable speed. Sometimes, I think that we forget that we are in the driver's seat. We can yank that emergency brake at any time, and say to ourselves, "I need to slow down for a second and just be in the moment."

This week, I rode a bike for the first time in probably 10-12 years. There were no cell phones. There was no iPod. Just me and my friend, taking about our memories, warning of oncoming traffic, wheezing up inclines, and letting the sun tan our arms. The world slowed down.

I also flew kites on Sunday with my family; an activity I haven't done in nearly twenty years. I felt like kid again, playing with other kids. I didn't care about anything except getting those kites as high as they could go. I looked around at all the other people in the park experiencing the same nostalgic adventure I was experiencing: We were happy, we were inventive, we were free. It was a freedom I haven't felt in quite a long time, and it was exhilarating!

Stillness is a good thing.


7 comments:

Unknown said...

I am so glad you had time to relax and be with your family!

I wish I lived closer so we could ride bikes. I don't have anyone up here to ride bikes with except for my young women... when I force them to ride their bikes to the activities, since I am riding mine and they therefore DON'T have a ride muah ha ha!

Laura Blue said...

Oh, my dearest Chaddy. If only we could all take time to think about life like you do. I think we tend to just go with the flow and don't stand back to observe or take it all in as much as we should. This was a happy post for me. Makes me want to cherish my time a little more than I do. Now I want to go ride a bike. Thanks for charing this. What a great thing to live by... just to take time to be a kid again. I love you bro.

kacee said...

I love that picture of you and Mike...fun memories with that picture and the day! Thanks for playing with us - even if you did lose the cherished Diego kite! :)

angiedunn said...

true that.

i need to learn some lessons in just choosin' to be still & savor/enjoy life! you rock...

Anonymous said...

Flying kites is fun. And you are SO right. It was SO good to see you the other night at Chili's! I have missed you, more than you know, as has amie. We loved seeing you. Hope to do it again soon. Hey, do you do highlights at your place? I need some BAD. haha
love ya

ForeverSarahLee said...

I'm so glad to hear you've been enjoying these simple pleasure. Since moving home I too have been enjoying the little moments, the precious memories. I love it! I truly pray you're doing well every single day, I miss and love you dearly Chad! :0)

Crystal said...

It was so good to see you at Shep's. You are such a wonderful person and so uplifting and fun to be around!! Hope all is well. Toodeloo!!